I feel like I am going to have a nervous breakdown. Yahoo fait partie de Verizon Media. Why not just write a comprehensive post ?This is the mn equivalent of those vague fb posts, all designed to elicit ' what's up hun ? I now am isolated and depressed. It isn't your fault if your son is one of them. One in five women in the United States will not have a biological child, and Christen Reighter is one of them. Running away with his little mates at 3 am, so I'm being physically sick from worry? When children don't want to visit Children express resistance to staying with their other parent in different ways. But you are his mother therefore it is your role to help and support him. My husband's aunt or her sister has made comments about NOT putting her in nursing home. It's been hard to let go. I wiped my whole kitchen down with Lysol. If you don’t like being disliked by your own parent, stop being such a jerk. Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. I'm totally loosing the will to live and would rather be dead than have to inflict my daughter with the awful mother that I am. I do not want to be the horrible new daughter in law and kick her out. I call him because police literally don't come as quick as people may think and he often gets there faster. I DON'T WANT MY CHILDREN ANYMORE. That's awful op. My life is hell daily. If an adult child has been enough of a jerk that their own parent doesn’t like them, then they have NO RIGHT to claim victim status. He says he don't want nothing to do with our son he wants to start over. It takes a lot of jerk behavior over a long period of time to make your parent dislike you. You don’t necessarily have to work with an agency for this path. Dear Willie D: I am a 27-years-old divorcée with four small children ages eight months [through] six years. He doesn't live in the Uk and he will be flying out with them. It could be because of finances, marital discord, or general contentment with how things are. Grandchildren and foster child Some people don’t have to wear one – check who doesn’t have to wear a mask or face covering on GOV.UK. You guys come in a variety of packaging. I don't sleep in the same bed. Pour autoriser Verizon Media et nos partenaires à traiter vos données personnelles, sélectionnez 'J'accepte' ou 'Gérer les paramètres' pour obtenir plus d’informations et pour gérer vos choix. Informations sur votre appareil et sur votre connexion Internet, y compris votre adresse IP, Navigation et recherche lors de l’utilisation des sites Web et applications Verizon Media. I’m not a bad mom because I don’t want to always play with my kid. Vous pouvez modifier vos choix à tout moment dans vos paramètres de vie privée. My nephew who I have guardianship of was place on an IEP plan while in his mothers care. I'm actually falling into drepression from all the trouble my teen is causing me. He's a great father but doesn't do anything for me has a man should. 'Have you had family therapy? Premium Active discussions Register or sign in Talk. I don't even like to hold babies, much less give birth to one. He used to be such a sweet, sweet boy. I don’t have private lessons, I don’t practice (Shut that door, I can still hear you! What If They Don’t Want To Be Vegan Anymore? DH had to restrain him. What age is your son?Do you think you may have depression? Sounds like he has some stresses in his life, I imagine he is struggling with hormones & changes as he is going through puberty, let alone all of the wild & scary things that are out there in social media and school and so on. ... To be concerned over what my daughter says about a child at school. They have asked me to come and collect him. It was entirely my decision. Nos partenaires et nous-mêmes stockerons et/ou utiliserons des informations concernant votre appareil, par l’intermédiaire de cookies et de technologies similaires, afin d’afficher des annonces et des contenus personnalisés, de mesurer les audiences et les contenus, d’obtenir des informations sur les audiences et à des fins de développement de produit. But I don't want my child to be transgender (thefederalist.com) 310 More: Asinine , Transgender , child self , child's privacy , public school parent , Child's School , Gay Straight Alliance Clubs , past year , mom of an autistic child Sometimes children go through stages where they don't want to go and have no good reason, but there could be a real problem. So I don’t think it’s right to hold a gun to my children’s heads about being a vegan all their lives when at age 31 I’ve only been vegan 1 of those years. When she attended the meeting she did not understand what was going on, however she signed the plan. so it was immediately clear, even without words, that i don't want their kids in my home anymore. Découvrez comment nous utilisons vos informations dans notre Politique relative à la vie privée et notre Politique relative aux cookies. Very disrespectuful, doesn't listen if I punish him, now doing drugs..and thinks its all part of life. Especially with my kids. To use this feature subscribe to Mumsnet Premium - get first access to new features see fewer ads, and support Mumsnet. i would suggest, in your case, that you confront your neighbors and tell them the truth --said nicely, of course. I've done everything I can for him. I really don't want my son anymore. He's 15 and about to repeat the 7th grade again! Direct deposit is the quickest way to get your second stimulus check, but there are some important facts and figures to keep in mind. Mainly it’s a way to get out of the house. I am half tempted to email him during the week and say that I don't want them back. I don't want the pregnancy experience. How old is he? Working together with the school is a good option, they could help get him a counsellor or someone to talk to, see what's troubling him. Oh bloody hell. Don't forget to let me know how it goes! So perhaps you could be a bit less selfish & think about helping him to handle his life?? I used to be a very happy and positive person. something like, "i don't know if you're aware but your daughter says … Anyway, like you I am sitting here with tears running down my face at what I am about to say, but i don't want my children anymore. I feel bad because he really doesn't have much if it's not us. I feel a horrible person in my own home. Explain why you don’t want more children. I called the police last week, he assaulted me. It's like he isn't mine anymore. This is page 1 of 11 (This thread has 254 messages.). I feel almost no connection to them, like instead of my children they are just people who live in my house (like roommates). He broke my cheek bone. He needs to stop being selfish. When his parents split, they went to court and both stated they did not want the kids. I think that makes it even more complicated. I don't want my child anymore? To think that high levels of children being sent to school are the beginnings of lockdown resistance from the working age population, Talk widget showing discussions of the day & trending threads, Subscribe to Mumsnet emails direct to your inbox. This is so sad, strangely I was talking to my mum yesterday who was telling me about a guy she used to work with. I wasn't aware of it until my husband called her in for her bath and that's when she told us. I have a younger son but he isn't at risk, thank god. There has to be more to it than that incident?Get some help with/for him? A mom is never, ever supposed to admit this, but here goes: I've never liked my child. I'd make an urgent GP appointment and tell them what's been going on. My husband feels stuck, being an only child. You can choose to place your child for adoption with them, known as an identified adoption. He got in with the wrong people at school. Magical things happen when the written word is in play. I don't want to live with her anymore. I was not aware at the time that this was an IEP meeting and if I would have know I would have went and advocated for him. They had 6. It also sounds like the exchanges are filled with tension and this could be making your son upset, or more upset. I’m a bad mom if I don’t … Since we know better, it’s up to us to show him the way. I don’t know that I really am. He can’t do that with mommy and daddy hovering over him and being at his beck and call. Have a go at stamping out the one thing that's driving you nuts and making you want to be as far away from your child as possible. Have you had any input from social services? Yet I'm the selfish one? We offered respite care for many years, and for some of the children who came to us, I had to send my own children to their grandparents for a few days, so OH and I could concentrate on the disabled child… My husband is not really very helpful but he tries to be supportive to me. I want to foster his imagination and his confidence. Then their five year old boy found a knife in their backyard and was chasing my daughter with it. ... if you are in the uk she is now entitled to free places. I know there are a lot of parenting cynics out there. ... next week. I don’t even bother to tell my parents about the recital. LockwoodJ Mon 31-Oct-16 11:43:20. If you need help urgently, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide, which can point you to expert advice and support. Say, “With how things are financially, I just don’t think we can afford another kid. To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account. I don't think it's because DH is ill. So when I don’t want to do it anymore, I yell, “Story Circle!” and they all come running, favorite books in hand, to listen intently to whatever princess needs saving, treasure needs finding or animal needs rescuing. I have a similar 11 yr old. I love him more than words could ever convey but I don’t want to be an autism mum anymore. I don't know what to do. The parents sixteen year old daughter was watching their children, and they were playing in the backyard. He hates me, I hate him. Yes op it is awful what he has done to you, no doubt. I can't live with her anymore. On the third day after taking the test, as I woke up to grab my Gatorade (which was the only thing I could stomach) it hit me: I don't want a child. Some children cannot be raised within a family home, that is just a fact. I'm filing for divorce trying to do it on my own but I've come to a glitch. I've had enough. It’s important not to just dismiss your child when they don’t want to go see their other parent. What's that saying ' kids need a hug the most when they deserve it the least? To remind you that you cannot use your au pair for childcare all day every day. I don’t like my 16 year old daughter. I don't feel any sense of "immortality" that other people have told me they feel, in that they will live on through their children. My daughter is 3 and doesn't listen to me or do anything I ask. I'm not doing it anymore. My son sleeps with me and he sleeps in my son's bed. Is he at school atm? My husband and I didn’t find veganism until last year. My soon to be ex estranged husband for 7 years has never been there physically finacialy, or emotionly for my 7 year old son. Selfish? A child under five may appear clingy, cry, scream or pretend to be ill. You can search for their contact details on GOV.UK. I want to run away! If he gets into trouble I'm the one that will be held responsible. You could have your son evaluated by a … Why do you not want him?What has been happening? My wife is very maternal and great with babies and young kids. It’s been a challenge already and to imagine multiplying that by two, three, four is frightening. has everyone become too hysterical about Covid? Happy parenting, Katie. I just want him gone. (254 Posts) Add message | Report. The police finally find him and he gets home and starts shouting abuse. She upsets me every day. My four year old girl was playing next door. If you are thinking, “I don’t want my child anymore,” you may have someone in mind who can provide the love and support you cannot at this time in your life. If the court hasn’t told you how to attend your hearing, contact them to find out. A child doesn’t typically have a lot of control in their life, and sometimes forced visitation could just feel frustrating because they don’t have a say in where they go and when. He's in isolation though. He has to have a carer to his house (his house has special equipment) and I seriously don't think it's this. Their behaviour sucks!!!! If you don’t wear one, you won’t be allowed in the building. Explain to your wife your reasons for not wanting more children. How old is your son and how long have you been feeling this way? I cry all of the time. I don't want him. It is against the law to withhold your child from school, except for a small number of exceptions. 'There is good advice here if you give posters a chance. 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